from Rick Klaver to his children many years ago
| 1st Life | Let the dead marry the dead. |
| 2nd Character | A person’s standards, scruples, morals, values, etc. The foundation of a person, without which all the rest becomes a farce and you wind up with balloon people (everything on the outside, nothing on the inside). A person of good character does what is right because it is right. What do they stand for? What do they stand against? Why? Don’t just ask them what they believe. What is the basis of their beliefs? Did Martians tell them? Anyone throwing darts can accidentally hit a bulls-eye – you want the one who hits them consistently. |
| 3rd Personality | You’ll have more desire to spend time with someone polite, easygoing, refreshing, and other-centered rather than a self-centered, energy-sucking grump. |
| 4th Looks | If you hit with the first three, they could look like potatoes and you wouldn’t care. |