Do you struggle with gender identity?
I have the solution!
It is so simple that you will think to yourself, "How could I have been so dumb not to have seen it before?"
Are you ready for it?
Okay, here it is...
Look in your pants!
"The heart is more deceitful than all else and is desperately
wicked; Who can understand it?" Jeremiah 17:9
How in the world does someone "struggle" with their gender identity? What is to struggle with? If you are confused as to your gender identity, look in your pants! It is not hard to figure out. The boy from the movie Kindergarten Cop said it best: "Boys have a penis. Girls have a vagina." It cannot get any simpler than that.
There are some idiots out there (yes, "idiots" is the proper word) who claim that biological gender is merely "a construct." What?!? Really? Biological gender is "an idea" or "a theory"? What rock did these fools crawl out from under? That is as stupid as the philosophy that attempts to argue that we are not really here; we just think we are.
People who struggle with gender identity suffer from a mental disorder, the same as every other person who struggles with sexual identity. Transgenderism is just a variant form of homosexuality. Pederasty, bisexuality, pansexuality, polysexuality, omnisexuality, ambisexuality, transsexuality; they are all variant forms of homosexuality.
Just because you are mentally confused and "feel" that you are a balloon trapped in a man's/woman's body does not make you a balloon. If you are a Caucasian, you can identify yourself as a seven-foot tall African all you want, but that does not make it true. There used to be a simpler time when people who insisted on living in "realities" that were not real were committed and institutionalized for their mental disorders. Now, society caters to their every fantastical whim.
Jesus made it quite clear as to what genders there are: "Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE" (Matt. 19:4). Jesus also made it very clear as to God's law regarding marriage: "'FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH'? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:5-6). Anything outside of this is not a marriage! There is no wiggle room here. Jesus upheld heterosexuality as the only acceptable form of appropriate sexuality. You are the biological gender you were born as. Again, to quote the boy from the movie Kindergarten Cop, "Boys have a penis. Girls have a vagina."
A true Christian speaks the truth! Any professing "Christian" who accepts, approves, and condones of homosexuality, gay "marriage," or transgenderism is NOT a Christian, NOR are they loving in the least. A Christian speaks the truth, no matter how much it might hurt a person to hear. Genuine Christians are to be truth tellers. They should use the pronouns "her" and "she" when referring to those God made female, and they should use the pronouns "him" and "he" when referring to those God made male. Anything else is to bear false witness against our Creator and those who are trying to mutilate their flesh and be something that they are not and will never be.
Any person who professes to be a Christian and tosses their support in with homosexuality, gay "marriage," and transgenderism: (1) is a liar; (2) is not your friend; and (3) does not love you. You should not trust these individuals and you should avoid them. They are wolves in sheep's clothing. A person who loves you and is your friend will tell you what you need to hear; not what you want to hear.
"Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful
are the kisses of an enemy." Proverbs 27:6