There is a teaching making the rounds on social media, popularized by Walter Wink, that claims that to "turn the other cheek" referred to a so-called cultural practice that a right-hand backhand slap on the right cheek was a shaming gesture from a superior to an inferior (e.g., master to slave), and turning the other cheek forces an open-handed (equal-to-equal) strike, thus asserting dignity.
Unfortunately, this teaching has no scriptural or historical support. The early Christians of the first three centuries took "turn the other cheek" (Matthew 5:39; Luke 6:29) quite literally and their teachings reveal this. They treat "turn the other cheek" straightforwardly as a command to non-retaliation, patience under insult/injury, and overcoming evil through endurance rather than revenge.
- Didache (Teaching of the Twelve Apostles), (one of the earliest non-canonical Christian texts):
"Abstain from fleshly and worldly lusts. If someone gives you a blow upon your right cheek, turn to him the other also; and you shall be perfect. If someone impresses you for one mile, go with him two. If someone takes away your cloak, give him also your coat..."
This directly quotes/paraphrases Matthew 5:39 in a section on the "Way of Life," linking it to loving enemies, prayer for persecutors, and generosity. It frames the command as part of becoming "perfect" through non-resistance. - Justin Martyr (c. 100–165 AD), First Apology, Chapter 16:
"And concerning our being patient under injuries, and ready to serve all people, and free from anger: This is what he [Jesus] said: 'To the one who strikes you on one cheek, offer the other also; and to the one who takes away your cloak or coat, do not forbid it. Whoever is angry is in danger of the fire. Whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Let your good works shine before others, so that they may see them and glorify your Father who is in heaven.'" - Justin Martyr, First Apology, Chapter 16 (another nearby passage, often linked):
"We have learned not only not to return blow for blow, nor to go to law with those who plunder and rob us, but to those who strike us on one side of the face, we offer the other side also, and to those who take away our coat, we give our cloak as well."
Justin presents this as evidence of Christian transformation and moral superiority, showing how believers endure insults and loss patiently rather than retaliating, as part of broader teachings on loving enemies and non-resistance. - Irenaeus of Lyons (c. 130–202 AD), Against Heresies:
Jesus taught his disciples "not only not to strike, but even, when themselves struck, to present the other cheek [to those that maltreated them]..." He links this to fulfilling the new law of liberty, transforming people from violence to peace (e.g., beating swords into plowshares). - Athenagoras of Athens (c. 133–190 AD), A Plea for the Christians:
References the command in the context of Christian non-violence and gentleness. - Clement of Alexandria (c. 150–215 AD), Who Is the Rich Man That Shall Be Saved? (or Salvation of the Rich Man):
"Bear it, it is said, when struck on the face—which a person who is strong and in good health can obey. And again, a weak person may transgress because of a quick temper. So also a poor and destitute person may be found intoxicated with lusts; and a person rich in worldly goods may be temperate, poor in indulgences, trustworthy, intelligent, pure, and disciplined."
Clement references the command (alluding to Matthew 5:39) to illustrate that obedience to Jesus’ teachings on endurance depends on inner character and self-control, not external circumstances like strength or wealth. He frames it as part of the Christian call to virtue and salvation through the soul’s response to God. - Tertullian (c. 155–220 AD), On Patience, Chapter 8:
"If someone attempts to provoke you by physical violence, the instruction of the Lord is at hand: 'To him,' He says, 'who smacks you on the face, turn the other cheek likewise.' Let outrageousness be wearied out by your patience. Whatever that blow may be, conjoined with pain and insult, it shall receive a heavier one from the Lord. You wound that outrageous person more by enduring: for he will be beaten by Him for whose sake you endure."
Tertullian emphasizes patient endurance that shames the aggressor and invites divine justice, tying it to broader Christian patience amid persecution. - Origen (c. 185–253 AD) discusses Matthew 5:39 in works like Contra Celsum, defending it against pagan critics as a superior moral teaching to Greek philosophy (e.g., more practical than Plato). He notes its call to non-resistance.
These texts show continuity with the New Testament: the command promotes humility, de-escalation, and trust in God's justice over personal vengeance.
Right-hand dominance and taboos around the left hand (unclean) made a backhand the natural way to strike the right cheek. While there is cultural support in the broader Greco-Roman and Jewish contexts for bankhand strikes as insults (more demeaning, sometimes with higher legal penalties in Jewish law, e.g., Mishnah Bava Kamma on fines for backhand vs. open-hand slaps), the early Christians do not comment on the right/left cheek distinction as a social-status reversal tactic or equality assertion. If this was the intent behind "turn the other cheek," the early Christians of the first three centuries knew nothing of it. Especially considering this was their culture and society. Origen notes the right-cheek detail, but focuses on practical morality, not some "power dynamic." Such an understanding is absent from the earliest Christian interpreters, who quoted the verse literally and applied it to patience under "physical violence," "outrage," and persecution, emphasizing literal non-resistance amid real persecution. The early Christians treat "turn the other cheek" as non-retaliation and endurance, consistent with enemy-love.
Contrary to those individuals who claim "the phrase 'turn the other cheek' is often misunderstood to mean that one should passively accept abuse or mistreatment," the early Christians' overall witness strongly favoured pacifism or non-resistance in personal and military contexts, seeing "turn the other cheek" as lived out in martyrdom and refusal to return evil for evil. They do not add layers about social status reversal or forcing an "equal" open-hand strike; they emphasize humility, love for enemies, and trust in God's justice.
For those who are also ignorant enough to believe that Jesus gave cause for self-defense (protection of self, family, and property), you can read my thorough treatment of this false teaching here.