by Curtis Allen
If you go to hell, the only thing that will be worse than the fact 
that you are there, is that you'll remember that you didn't have to go. 
One of the most tormenting parts of hell will be the reality that your 
memory is in tact. And if the story of the Rich Man and Lazarus, that 
Jesus told in Luke 16, has any true descriptions of hell, one terrifying
 aspect will be that you will remember the life you had on earth, and 
how it made a place for you in hell. 
The Rich Man and Lazarus Luke 16:19-31
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 "There was a rich man who was clothed in purple and fine linen and who 
feasted sumptuously every day. 20 And at his gate was laid a poor man 
named Lazarus, covered with sores, 21 who desired to be fed with what 
fell from the rich man's table. Moreover, even the dogs came and licked 
his sores. 22 The poor man died and was carried by the angels to 
Abraham's side. The rich man also died and was buried, 23 and in Hades, 
being in torment, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham far off and 
Lazarus at his side. 24 And he called out, 'Father Abraham, have mercy 
on me, and send Lazarus to dip the end of his finger in water and cool 
my tongue, for I am in anguish in this flame.' 25 But Abraham said, 
'Child, remember that you in your lifetime received your good things, 
and Lazarus in like manner bad things; but now he is comforted here, and
 you are in anguish. 26 And besides all this, between us and you a great
 chasm has been fixed, in order that those who would pass from here to 
you may not be able, and none may cross from there to us.' 27 And he 
said, 'Then I beg you, father, to send him to my father's house-28 for I
 have five brothers-so that he may warn them, lest they also come into 
this place of torment.' 29 But Abraham said, 'They have Moses and the 
Prophets; let them hear them.' 30 And he said, 'No, father Abraham, but 
if someone goes to them from the dead, they will repent.' 31 He said to 
him, 'If they do not hear Moses and the Prophets, neither will they be 
convinced if someone should rise from the dead.'"
In verse 
23, the scripture tell us that the rich man was in hell and was being 
tormented. He asks Abraham for some relief (v.24), which gives us a 
picture into his torment which verse 23 doesn't tell us. His agony 
consists of flames and immeasurable heat, so he asks that a drop of cool
 water be placed on his tongue. That means it must be really hot in hell
 if the tip of Abraham's finger would be some sort of relief. Wow!
But
 Abraham's first words in response  are "remember." He tells the Rich 
man to remember that in his life he had everything and the poor man had 
nothing. This is an important realization about the place of eternal 
punishment. And one in which I think is extremely important. This idea 
of remembering  goes even further. In verses 27-28, the rich man 
remembers his family. He remembers their spiritual condition and begs 
Abraham to send someone to rescue them from the punishment that he is 
experiencing. Notice that he doesn't disagree with Abraham. For, 
implicit in Abraham's statement to him is a rejection of God for the 
riches he acquired in this life. He knows Abraham is right because he 
remembers. His cognitive abilities remain fully intact in the after 
life. And that adds to the torment. 
To me, this reality of hell 
can be easily forgotten. But it's one that should be soberly remembered,
 especially by those who have grown up in the church. In a day, where a 
good portion of the people that we'll try to disciple, were at one time 
disciples (used to be believers), but have walked away from the faith, 
the reality of memory is a scary one. In other words, people will 
remember all of the times that God provided them chances to repent but 
they chose the pleasures of this life instead. And while that may not be
 the main point of the Rich Man and Lazarus story, it is still a point 
worth considering.